Saturday, October 25, 2014

THE FATE OF THE AVERAGE NIGERIAN YOUTH IN PRECARIOUS TIMES LIKE THIS



The night crawled by gently like dripping raindrops, the moon set in place, birds chirping happily and the stars set in array in their galaxies. It was a cool and beautiful night with dark shades around the corners of the street. In one of those corners, a dim light revealed a tall,
muscular and dark figure in a frantic rush to get home. His name is John and from his looks, one would ascertain that he isn’t a happy youth. Having been raised in a poor family with no formal education, he grew up always feeling odd and different from other kids in his slum. In that little darkness, John managed to find his way home. With his heart so heavy and burdened with the daily challenges of life, he couldn’t sleep throughout the night. The sad
memories of his upbringing, poor family background and no formal education kept flooding his mind.

So frustrated with his poor life, he decided to take the rage on his poor father who laid peacefully in the sitting room in a deep sleep.
For a while, John thought to himself “ of what other way can I get out of this miserable life than ending the life of the one person who
brought me into it”?

He summoned up courage, took a bold step towards his sleeping father and with a cutlass in his right hand butchered the old man to death while he slept peacefully. It was only after his arrest and the pronouncement of the
death sentence penalty in a court trial did John realize that he was responsible for his own life and the direction it led him to. These were his own very last statement before he went to join his father
 “ if only I knew what I know now, that I was responsible for the way I responded to situations around me, I would still have my father alive and I would have been a better
contributor to the society”.

As a young Nigerian youth and a potential leader, I sit quietly sometimes pondering and asking myself some questions about the fate of
the common Nigerian youth in this precarious times we are. As a growing leader who spends some time thinking about the fate of our future leaders, it never ceases to amaze me how things have suddenly changed.

What keeps me awake some nights is the level of moral decadence that has befallen us in our society, the high-handedness and corruption
in virtually all sectors of our economy. This leaves me asking one question; what happened to our values? What has gone wrong with the same good values we are supposed to uphold and pass on to the future generations? What has our schools and churches been teaching to our young ones? What has the family which is the basic unit of the society been doing to bring up our children in a rightful way?

The average Nigerian youth is taught to make it by hook or crook. Why the decay in our morals and values? Nigeria is a land flowing with
milk and honey, blessed with a lot of natural and Intellectual resources. But why do our Secondary schools have to engage in examination malpractices? Do our teachers also forget to instruct students of such schools that it is evil to indulge in such acts? Or do the School management indulge in this act just to promote the name of the School and make some money?
What about our University education? The misappropriation of funds, corruption in offices,
sorting of courses and the sexual harassment of female students by lecturers. One of my lecturers once told me of how good and peaceful this country used to be in the 1980s. Does any Nigerian youth feel the pain I feel
when I see things go the wrong way? I know there are some people who feel the same way.

This is a wakeup call to all Nigerian youths. The truth remains that we cannot become the great future leaders of tomorrow if we do not first re-examine our lives, our society, we need to take an inward look at our values. We need to have a rethink and ask ourselves if this is
the kind of country we want to leave for our children and great- grand children. This
is no time to recount blames. Even though some of our leaders in the past didn’t perform well and probably things got bad, does that
mean we will accept it whole heartedly? No, evil only prevails where good people do nothing.

I see a calamitous end for our Nation, our land, our youths and our children if something drastic is not done to remedy the current
situation of things. This is a call for effective leadership from the Nigerian youths, a call to serve our Fatherland, a call to move this
country to a higher ground and a call to have a happy end.
If you are touched as a Nigerian youth reading this, I think you need to act. This Nation is falling apart, it is up to the youths to assemble every facets. The idea is not to abscond from the country, but to stay back and fix it. We have to fix to fix back our country, we have to take
initiative. It is up to the Nigerian youths to move this country forward.
 It is in us, we have to take the risk and make this Nation a great one indeed. Not just
for ourselves but for our generations to come. It is not enough to attend a university to earn a degree; it has to reflect in our daily lives, in the
way we relate with one another and also in our various leadership positions.

After all, in the end, the Ultimate question wouldn’t be how much properties, certificates or money we acquire but how we effectively managed the resources at our disposal to touch people’s lives.
Wake up Nigerian Youths! The time to act is now!


Compiled by Ochuehi Chukwuma Franklin.



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Thursday, June 19, 2014

PHOTO: UNBELIEVABLE; A Feather Growing Out Of A Baby's Neck...


Aaron and Emma Whittington rushed their 7 month-old daughter Mya to the hospital after finding a bump on the side of her neck that was swelling at a rapid rate. Doctor’s admitted
little Mya and watched as a two inch feather forced itself out of the little girls neck.

Aaron Whittington, 26 spoke with ABCNews.com and said, “We were just pretty much in disbelief. I was at work and my wife
noticed that the left side of her neck had started to swell, and she called me at work and asked if we should take her to the emergency room.”

The couple decided to wait and see what happened, by the next morning they knew they had to take Mya to the hospital.
“Sunday morning, when we work up, it had doubled in size and there was a pimple looking thing on the end of it.”

“We were looking at it and going, ‘There’s no way this is a swollen gland’.” When Mya was first admitted into the hospital, doctors thought she had a staph infection in one of her lymph nodes.

 However,after attempting to drain the “bump”, nothing came out of it. Several hours later, Aaron Whittington noticed what he thought was a “half-inch string” protruding from the bump. He immediately contacted the doctor to take a look.

“The pediatrician threw on gloves and she pulled out a 2-inch feather and she’s like, ‘It’s a feather.’ And we’re like, ‘What do you mean it’s a feather’?”

“As far as how the feather got into the side of the neck, our doctors say we’ll probably never really know. But her best guess is that she either inhaled it or tried swallowing it and it
got lodged in the throat somewhere, and the body, just being crazy, just started to reject it and force it out the side of her neck.”



According to Aaron Whittington, Mya is “almost 100 percent recovered. We’ve been extremely, extremely surprised” by all of
the media attention. “We’ve gotten stories in Kenya, India, the U.K. It’s really crazy”

Doctors expect Mya Whittington to make a full recovery. They do not expect her to need surgery as they believe her body will heal on its own.

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Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Photo: Mrs Dora Akunyili Now Emaciated After Battling Illness


Ex-NAFDAC DG Mrs Dora Akunyili made her first public appearance yesterday at the National Conference in Abuja after going through an undisclosed ailment that nearly claimed her life. Mrs Akunyili confirmed to reporters that she just came out of a major illness but she was well now and just needed time to put on some weight. Get well soon, and may God be with u...



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Pictures Of Genevieve's Daughter Dazzling With Beauty


Super beauty I must say, just like the mother. See more pics after the cut...








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Malaysia Govt. Offers $5000 Compensation To Relatives Of Passengers


The Malaysian Government has offered $5000 each to families of those who lost their lives in the ill-fated Malaysia Airlines flight MH370 which crashed into the Indian Ocean over two weeks ago. The government also stated that they will be paying more if need be...

Is this really the right thing to do? Are they being insensitive to the pains of the families affected? What's your take on this development?

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Build a Stronger Relationship: 10 Tips to Deepen Trust


Trust is the bedrock for building a strong relationship. However, lack of trust is one of the most common themes to surface in most
relationships. If you are struggling with the issue of trust in your relationship below are some tips to help you develop greater trust with your partner.

Trust means that you have placed your confidence and faith in your partner, and that you expect honesty, integrity, loyalty, and respect to be at the center of your relationship. You also expect your partner to keep promises and confidences, and to stay with you when the going gets tough.

Your trust should always be earned; you should not give it to another lightly. When you first met your partner, you probably shared information that helped you to figure out whether or not he or she was “worthy” of your trust and of your heart. As you got to know your partner better, you most likely shared more vulnerable information about yourself, expecting that he or she would hold this most precious part of you in a place of safety and love. At some point, however, your wonderful partner may have either said or done something that triggered you and your trust was broken.

We are all inherently complex beings who bring our past experiences, hurts, fears and expectations into every new relationship we enter. Sometimes our woundedness spills over
into our relationship and we lose our ability to feel safe in our relationship – regardless of whether or not our partner actually “deserved” our lack of trust.

If you would like to deepen the trust between you and your partner, please try these 10 tips:

1. Keep what your partner tells you within the confines of your relationship. Telling others what your partner has shared with you in confidence destroys trust.

2. Don’t rely on email, phone calls and texts to communicate with your partner. Spend time communicating face-to-face. Communicating in person will help each of you to build a greater sense of security as you become more open and vulnerable with one another.

3. Consider your partner’s interests. The more you do for him or her, the more he or she will know that they can count on you and that you have their best interests at heart. If your partner feels like they can count on you, it will make it much easier for them to share the more vulnerable parts of themselves with you.

4. Follow through with the little promises that you make. For example, if you say that you will call or be some place at a certain time, be sure that you do these things. Small actions
matter toward helping you to build a strong foundation of trust.

5. Learn to apologize when you make a mistake or disappoint your partner. An authentic apology should be sincere and from
the heart. To be truly meaningful, take responsibility for your actions and reassure your partner that you understand how your
action impacted him or her.

6. As you learn more about your partner, allow yourself to share more personal information and history with him or her. Aim for balance between how much each of you shares, since trust is not built if only one person shares.

7. Spend time together doing things that make each of you happy. Since you are two different people, you will naturally like some different things. Being open to a new experience that your partner brings to you will build the bond between you and trust will follow.

8. Practice forgiveness when you are upset with your partner, and let go of a hurt after the two of you have talked it through. Receiving a sincere apology builds trust in an important way.

9. Take some time away from your partner to check in with yourself, and get some feedback from your trusted friends or relatives. By taking space and speaking with a trusted friend or relative, you may gain a new perspective about your relationship. For example, you may discover that you have been pushing aside information about your partner that tells you this person cannot be trusted. On the other hand, you may discover that your
partner is ultimately worthy of your trust.

10. Trust can fluctuate over time as each of you experiences the bumps of life. Reassure each other that your love and safety are still intact. This will further strengthen the foundation of trust between the two of you.

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Monday, March 24, 2014

Graphic Photo: Girl Mutilates Another Girl Over Love Affair With Her Man


Some girls can really go the extra mile to protect their interest....A teenage girl named Funmilola has been arrested by the Nigeria police after she attacked another teenage girl with a sharp object, slashing her neck, after accusing her of dating her boyfriend.

15year old Haliya Odunaya (pictured above), who is a senior secondary student is currently receiving treatment at Stars Clinic on Apapa Road in Ebute Matta after the brutal attack left her fighting for her life.
Her attacker, Funmi, who is said to be a little older that Haliya had warned her to steer clear of ‘her man’ or prepare to pay for it. On Saturday March 15th, Haliya paid, and paid big time.
 After Funmi heard that Haliya and her boyfriend had met up that day, she went to Haliya’s house to confront her. And that was
where the attack took place.

Narrating what happened that day with reporters, Haliya denied having an affair the man in question.
      “I was coming from where I went to buy something that night when Funmilola met me at the end of the street. She started pushing me and insulting me but I did not utter a word. When I entered our house, she stood outside and was shouting at the top of her voice heaping insults on my parents and I. “At that stage I decided to respond to her threats and
went to meet her to warn her against insulting my mother. After I had told her my mind, I turned to go back into our building and that was when she (Funmilola) dragged me back and produced a sharp object from under her cloths and attacked me with it,” Haliya said...

Haliya was left there in the pool of her blood until neighbours rushed her to the hospital. Doctors say she’s is lucky to be alive. Meanwhile, the man has since denied dating both young girls.

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Friday, March 21, 2014

Stella Damasus Closes Her Facebook Accounts Due To Fraud


Veteran Nollywood actress — Stella Damasus announced yesterday afternoon that she has shut down all her Facebook accounts because of impersonators swindling innocent people of their hard earned money through the accounts.

Stella Damasus says she prefers to shut down the accounts, than for her fans to be cheated.

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Sunday, February 9, 2014

CONFUSION: How 4 Men Took Turns defiling 12-Year-Old Girl, Got Her Pregnant


Man's inhumanity to man. Kehinde Williams, a 12- year old pupil was alleged defiled by four men who are her father’s tenants and now she is pregnant.
Kehinde was defiled repeatedly at different times mostly on her mother’s bed by Shaibu Isiaka, 29; John Obah, 30; Vincent 28, who are now in police custody while the remaining one identified as Idris, is currently on the run.

This abuse has been going on and would have gone unnoticed if Kehinde hadn’t gotten pregnant. The victim who lives with her mother in Oworonshoki, a suburb of Lagos State lost her father last year January and her mother, Mrs. Shade Williams who is a petty trader has been the one taking care of her and her two siblings.

Speaking with journalist, Mrs Williams said, she didn’t notice the changes in her daughter that suggested she was pregnant.

“ I didn’t notice the change but had observed that her buttocks were getting fatter and I thought the food she was eating has started manifesting in her adding some flesh. Apart from the food she was eating at home, whenever she was going to school, I used to give her much money so that she would not be
interested in what other pupils were buying or eating. I do everything to make her happy and comfortable. Nothing like pregnancy ever came to my mind; I never imagined such
because each time I asked her the last time she saw her monthly menstrual period, she told me, last month. ”

She said after her neighbours suggested she check her daughter to find out if she’s pregnant, she asked her to urinate into a cup
which she took to a medical laboratory and the result was positive. She then took her for pregnancy scan and the scan revealed that she was already six months pregnant.

Mrs William was further confused when her daughter started mentioning names of the tenants who had been violating her and narrating the whole ordeal.

According toKehinde who said the men used to take turns defiling her when she comes back from school, she didn’t tell her mother of the incident earlier because she was afraid of what her mother would do to her.

The family is now waiting for the baby to be born, to carry out a DNA test to determine who among the four men is the father of the baby.

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